Question: Why does hair have to be "good" or "bad" or a "good grade"? I know exactly what people mean when they say this (i.e. "good hair" being a looser curl or a silkier look, or straight; "bad hair" being kinky, tightly coiled... etc.). I've only really seen this WITHIN our race (Black/African-American) -- other races seem to care less about how we wear our hair. But within our own race we put each other down if we don't have hair that is straight or loosely curled, or if we're "too dark", etc. WTF is wrong with us? Why can't we all be beautiful and all love ourselves the way God made us? What's with the self-hate? I hate self-hate, so I choose to love me. My hair, my skin, everything. Why not love yourselves??
xoxo Be positive. It takes less energy than to be negative! ;-)